10 Things You’ll Do as a New Parent That Are More Important Than You Think

With so much responsibility suddenly placed on your shoulders and with everything being so new and bewildering, it’s no surprise that new parents often stress about doing the wrong thing. In fact, even when you have your second or third, you’ll probably still question yourself.

Every pregnancy, birth and baby are different and more often than not there’s no right or wrong way of doing things. You can read books, attend multiple antenatal classes and google anything and everything, but despite being armed with information, whether you’re going to do it ‘right’ is still a worry.

As inevitable as dwelling on parenting mistakes probably is, take a look at this list and use it as a reminder of all the important things that you probably won’t even think about. Remember to trust your instincts, praise yourself and celebrate small wins.

1. You feed them: When your baby is hungry, they can count on you to feed them. This isn’t just about giving them food; it’s about the trust and bond that forms as they learn they can depend on you to meet their needs. 

2. You are the best comforter there is: They might have a soother to help them sleep, but nothing will beat a cuddle from you. You’ll bring them peace and make them feel safe.

3. You make them smile: As you spend time with your baby, you’ll discover the little things that bring them joy. These moments of shared smiles are precious, strengthening your bond and creating happy memories.

4. Before too long you’ll able to decode a cry and know whether they’re tired, hungry, wet or just need a cuddle.

5. You’re a superhero in disguise: Teacher, nurse, cleaner, chef – there are endless roles you will fulfil daily.

It’s important to note that these skills aren’t instant – it’s like a new job or an apprenticeship – you’re not expected to know it all when you start, you learn as you go. Then just when you think you have it sussed, you get it wrong – the point is, you’re learning and so are they and there will be far more things you’ve done that are right. You are there for them when they need it most and that’s what matters.

As your child gets older, so too does your list of parenting wins…

6. You have magical powers: As a parent, you have the incredible ability to make everything better with just a hug or a kiss. When your child falls or feels upset, your comforting touch and soothing words can work wonders, making everything right again. 

7. You’ll understand toddler-speak: Even when they can’t speak at all you will find a way to understand them, deciphering made-up words.

1. You make them happy: Playing with them, pushing them on the swing and singing nursery rhymes to them – they can count on you to fill their days with fun.

2. Even though you will read your child’s favourite book a thousand times, you’ll still read it night after night because they love it.

8. You are their role model: Every day, you teach your child new skills, both physical and mental. Through your actions and words, they learn important life lessons and values. Most importantly, they learn what it feels like to be loved and cared for, shaping their understanding of relationships and self-worth.

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